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The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Enhancing Sexual Desire Questions Answered

by JM

lovelettercontest.jpgHello and welcome to Enhancing Sexual Desire week on Long Relationships.

Rachel Greene Baldino and Judy Ford have taken over this blog for the week and are answering questions about enhancing sexual desire to matter how long you have been in your relationship.

If you would like the chance to win a copy of the book, check out this post.

“How do we get in touch with our sensuality?”

Judy: Everyone has a sensuous side and to re-ignite those joyful sensations, you have to pay close attention to your body. When you take a shower pay attention to the silky feel of the soap, pay attention to the warmth of the water running down your skin, pay attention to how the wash cloth feels on your face.

When you touch your husband’s check, feel his whiskers brush your face. Buy yourself roses and pay attention to how they smell. Pay attention to your partner’s energy. Tell him how much you like touching his hand, his face. Tell him how good is touch feels. Tell him that his arms around you bring you chills and that you feel like melting.

The more you verbalize to him how excited you are at seeing him walk into the room, the more you sensuous side will come out of the box.

Rachel: There are loads of fun, exciting ways to get back in touch with your sensual side. For instance, taking a hot bath or going for a massage or a mani-pedi, or picking flowers for yourself. Anything that allows you to enjoy and get back in touch with any of your five senses offers you a way to get back in touch with your inner source of joy and playfulness.


4 Responses to “The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Enhancing Sexual Desire Questions Answered”

  1. Pump Up Your Book Promotion February Authors on Tour - Day 9! « Pump Up Your Book Promotion Virtual Book Tours Says:

    […] Complete Idiot’s Guide to Enhancing Sexual Desire (Penguin, Dec. ‘07) will be stopping off at Long Relationships for part two of their their week-long stay to talk about increasing sexual desire and other […]

  2. Rachel Says:

    Thanks so much, JM, for hosting us this week, and for all the wonderful support you are giving us and our book! We are beyond grateful!

    - Rachel Greene Baldino, co-author, with Judy Ford, of “The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Enhancing Sexual Desire”

  3. Cheryl Malandrinos Says:

    You ladies are right on with your advice and the more I hear about this book, the more I like it.

    Keep up the great work.

    Cheryl

  4. JM Says:

    Rachel - It has truly been a pleasure to host authors of a book I like so much.

    Cheryl - Thanks for stopping by.

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