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Love Question 3

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More fun from Short Sweet Love Poems.

For this week, let’s have a little more fun. Just come up with 5 types of men that you can’t stand and whom you think a woman should never marry, apart from the usual gambler, alcoholic, drug addict, womaniser and abuser.

Different women do have different tastes and distastes in men so, let’s list out yours. Maybe you hate a miser or a control freak. Or perhaps you can’t stand a male chauvinist or someone who always think he is better than you. Whatever they are, list them out so, everyone can have a read.

Love Q #3: What are the 5 types of men that you can’t stand and whom you think a woman should never marry?

1. The Forever Bachelor – Likes the idea of marriage and settling down but is and always has been made to be a bachelor.

2. The “I Care On the Inside�? Man – He cares, but he’s so tough and macho that he never (or rarely) shows it. I think it takes more balls to own up to how you feel.

3. Love ‘Em and Leave ‘Em Man – People don’t change unless something hugely dramatic happens. And even then most people don’t change. If he liked sleeping around then, commitment to you isn’t going to be his forte.

4. Mr. Indecisive – If it took him forever to go out with you, forever to propose, etc, and he waffled on those decisions, he’s probably not the kind of guy you should go for.

5. Mr. Tight Ass – Your finances are his finances. He wants the change. He wants to see the receipts. He has ideas on how you could better use your money, he always buys generic, and he never thinks of luxury at the end of a hard day. Need I say more?

Check out Nurin and Abbey for their answers.

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6 Responses to “Love Question 3”

  1. JO-N Says:

    You know what? I think you have very interesting answer to this question.

  2. amidrin Says:

    Yes, I agree with Jo-N too. Really interesting answers, all five of them.

  3. Martini Says:

    yeah, agree with JO-N and amidrin. However every person has different taste, I really hate the indecise type.

  4. Sandra Says:

    Ugh, Mr. Tight Ass gave me a bad flashback. I remember explaining why I needed a measly two dollars years ago for panty hose. Never again.

    I hated it when a guy I was with ogled another woman to the extent that he cranked his head or put his tongue out. Disgusting and disrespectful, especially if he can’t even control it in front of you.

  5. Aud Says:

    Yes, I can’t stand Mr. Tight Ass either. My friend married one and I don’t know how she can tolerate it. I guess different people do have different likes and dislikes. As they say, one man’s meat is another man’s poison. :)

  6. JM Says:

    Thank you all for stopping by. I’m glad you like my answers (only some of which come from experience).

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