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		<title>Comment on And We’re Back! by JM</title>
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		<dc:creator>JM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jul 2008 00:17:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is *wonderful* to be back! :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is *wonderful* to be back! <img src='http://www.longrelationships.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>Comment on And We’re Back! by Shannon</title>
		<link>http://www.longrelationships.com/and-we%e2%80%99re-back/#comment-28000</link>
		<dc:creator>Shannon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 15:37:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Welcome back!  Glad to see it back up and running again:-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Welcome back!  Glad to see it back up and running again:-)</p>
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		<title>Comment on Are You Real? by JM</title>
		<link>http://www.longrelationships.com/are-you-real/#comment-27953</link>
		<dc:creator>JM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Jun 2008 03:46:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Shannon - Excellent statement there. It is very important to be yourself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Shannon - Excellent statement there. It is very important to be yourself.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Love Question Eight by JM</title>
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		<dc:creator>JM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jun 2008 00:59:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, someone with bad hygiene and/or someone who is rude to the waitstaff would really get to me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, someone with bad hygiene and/or someone who is rude to the waitstaff would really get to me.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Love Question Eight by Shannon</title>
		<link>http://www.longrelationships.com/love-question-eight/#comment-27892</link>
		<dc:creator>Shannon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2008 15:36:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree...someone that is me me me and shows no interest in getting to know me.  Also would be arrogance (which goes hand in hand with me me me) and someone who obviously just wants sex and makes the date about that.  Someone with poor hygiene would be a big one for me.  Someone that talks about how his Mom cooks him dinner every night and he's 40.  Someone that treats the wait staff bad or like they are beneath them. Someone that talks too much about work and not enough about passions and free time interests.  Being uptight, vain or not a good conversationalist. Someone that says "you know what I mean" or similar things over and over. Someone that answers cell phone repeatedly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree&#8230;someone that is me me me and shows no interest in getting to know me.  Also would be arrogance (which goes hand in hand with me me me) and someone who obviously just wants sex and makes the date about that.  Someone with poor hygiene would be a big one for me.  Someone that talks about how his Mom cooks him dinner every night and he&#8217;s 40.  Someone that treats the wait staff bad or like they are beneath them. Someone that talks too much about work and not enough about passions and free time interests.  Being uptight, vain or not a good conversationalist. Someone that says &#8220;you know what I mean&#8221; or similar things over and over. Someone that answers cell phone repeatedly.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Love Question Eight by Aud</title>
		<link>http://www.longrelationships.com/love-question-eight/#comment-27881</link>
		<dc:creator>Aud</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2008 08:45:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sometimes, I feel it is all chemistry. For me, I just don't like men not paying, awkward silence, and men not taking the lead, ie. leaving everything to me on where to go, what to do. I guess different people have different tolerance level for different things and personalities.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes, I feel it is all chemistry. For me, I just don&#8217;t like men not paying, awkward silence, and men not taking the lead, ie. leaving everything to me on where to go, what to do. I guess different people have different tolerance level for different things and personalities.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Are You Real? by Sandra</title>
		<link>http://www.longrelationships.com/are-you-real/#comment-27829</link>
		<dc:creator>Sandra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 23:48:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It took me awhile to get on here as well. I tend to be more quiet with someone who I don't feel as comfortable with or seems judgmental. Over the years I have loosened up a bit and gained more confidence but I still hold back a little. I don't think that this is necessarily fake but that could be another person's perception.

I do have a more formal "phone voice" as you mentioned but my every day language would be too crude for some. When I talk to close family I often revert back to old slang and sometimes bad grammar.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It took me awhile to get on here as well. I tend to be more quiet with someone who I don&#8217;t feel as comfortable with or seems judgmental. Over the years I have loosened up a bit and gained more confidence but I still hold back a little. I don&#8217;t think that this is necessarily fake but that could be another person&#8217;s perception.</p>
<p>I do have a more formal &#8220;phone voice&#8221; as you mentioned but my every day language would be too crude for some. When I talk to close family I often revert back to old slang and sometimes bad grammar.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Are You Real? by Shannon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shannon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 16:57:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>(Hopefully this works, I've been having a really hard time getting on the site and especially leaving comments.)
I'd say I'm varying degrees of myself around different people, but I'm still myself if that makes sense.  Like I wouldn't pretend to be someone I'm not just to please another person. I might not get as relaxed and as comfortable around certain people, but I'm still myself.
I really believe in just being yourself...because if you change who you are to please another person, you are admitting to yourself that you think their way is more valuable or important.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(Hopefully this works, I&#8217;ve been having a really hard time getting on the site and especially leaving comments.)<br />
I&#8217;d say I&#8217;m varying degrees of myself around different people, but I&#8217;m still myself if that makes sense.  Like I wouldn&#8217;t pretend to be someone I&#8217;m not just to please another person. I might not get as relaxed and as comfortable around certain people, but I&#8217;m still myself.<br />
I really believe in just being yourself&#8230;because if you change who you are to please another person, you are admitting to yourself that you think their way is more valuable or important.</p>
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		<title>Comment on In-Lawed by shania</title>
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		<dc:creator>shania</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 16:09:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on In-Lawed by butts</title>
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		<dc:creator>butts</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 13:12:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I mean, <a href="http://www.gaestebuch-umsonst.ws/a/antonplatterson.htm" rel="nofollow">big wet butts</a>  his hand on the relief of us. Just tell me to.</p>
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